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By Chris Buckley, New York Times<\/a><\/p>\n

For Hasinah Izhar, it seems a lifetime since she scrambled onto a boat on a muddy shore of Myanmar<\/a>, clutching three of her children, and joined the exodus of the persecuted Rohingya minority, hoping for a better life in Malaysia<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But in the year since she told her story<\/a> to The New York Times, little has changed. The burdens of caring for three children and a jobless husband, while separated from the son she left behind in Myanmar, were still hard to bear.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019d like to fly like a bird back to Myanmar, but there is no peace and security there,\u201d she said in the cramped rented room she shares with her husband and three children in Penang, Malaysia. \u201cBut we don\u2019t want to stay in Malaysia, because we cannot work and live in freedom.\u201d<\/p>\n

The biggest change came in March, when the Office of the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees in Kuala Lumpur certified Ms. Izhar and the three children as refugees. Their refugee cards give some protection from frequent police checks and better access to health care, albeit at a price still out of reach for many.<\/p>\n

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\u201cI\u2019d like to fly like a\u00a0bird back to Myanmar,\u00a0but there is no peace\u00a0and security there.\u201d\u00a0HASINAH IZHAR, ROHINGYA REFUGEE IN MALAYSIA<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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The family also received nearly $12,000 in donations from Times readers who were moved by the article and wanted to help<\/a>. Ms. Izhar said she and her husband had used the money to pay debts owed for her and her children\u2019s journey from Myanmar, to pay rent and for school expenses for the children.<\/p>\n

But Ms. Izhar\u2019s husband, Dil Muhammad Rahman, did not receive a refugee card. The couple said they thought that was because the authorities had made a priority of giving them to women and children.<\/p>\n

The United Nations refugee agency in Kuala Lumpur said by email that it did not comment on specific cases but that in general its \u201climited capacity requires it to prioritize refugees who are most in need of international protection.\u201d<\/p>\n

Even if he did have refugee status, Mr. Rahman would not be allowed to work legally. Like many Rohingya, he hunts for off-the-books jobs in construction, gardening or home repair. But even lowly work has been hard to come by, because Mr. Rahman cannot speak Malay, and employers and other workers are worried about his unregistered status, he said.<\/p>\n

Perhaps even worse, the son Ms. Izhar left behind in Myanmar, some 1,200 miles away, remains trapped there. Jubair, now 14, has become increasingly bitter.<\/p>\n

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Dil Muhammad Rahman, far right, and three of his children in the room they share. Refugee status for the children gives them some protection from frequent police checks and better access to health care. Credit Rahman Roslan for The New York Times<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201cWhen I call him,\u201d Ms. Izhar said, \u201che starts crying and complains to me \u2014 \u2018Why don\u2019t you take me to Malaysia? You always say that you will bring me there soon. How much longer will you keep cheating me?\u2019 \u201d<\/p>\n

Ms. Izhar left him, her eldest child, in part because she could not afford the smugglers\u2019 fee, which cost much more for young men, but had hoped to be able to have him rejoin the family. She felt compelled to flee persecution in Myanmar, she told The Times last year, but vowed when she left, \u201cIf I can stay alive, I will bring him to Malaysia.\u201d<\/p>\n

That goal has remained out of reach. Myanmar does not recognize Rohingya as citizens and does not allow them to leave. Smuggling has become even more difficult since governments in the region cracked down on the trade after it exploded into a crisis<\/a> last year.<\/p>\n

Nor can Ms. Izhar return to Myanmar even to visit because she arrived in Malaysia as an undocumented migrant, so any journey abroad would be perilous, and it would be nearly impossible for her to return legally to Myanmar.<\/p>\n

She has phoned Jubair occasionally and sent money, but he has not found stable work or a warm home, though he is staying with one of her brothers, an instructor in Islam who has also been unable to find steady work. Jubair made a little money as a farm laborer, carrying water and planting paddy rice.<\/p>\n

Ms. Izhar has fixed her hopes on winning resettlement for her family to America, Australia or Canada as refugees. She said: \u201cThen we can advance our children\u2019s lives.\u201d<\/p>\n

But those opportunities are very few, and even if the family were offered resettlement, her son Jubair would not qualify.<\/p>\n

Of the nearly 1,500 Rohingya whose arrivals in Indonesia, Malaysia and Thailand were officially registered last year, only <\/a>46 have been resettled<\/a>by a third country.<\/p>\n

Illness has also dogged Ms. Izhar\u2019s family. She said she suffered from numbness, constant tiredness and heart palpitations. A doctor visiting her sons\u2019 school, which is supported by the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees, had given them medicine.<\/p>\n

But the drugs have not worked, and she said she had also been losing her temper with her 5-year-old son, Sufaid, who has difficulty controlling his bowel movements and often soils his clothes. He also cries about bullying by boys in the neighborhood.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t want any peace and happiness for myself in this lifetime,\u201d Ms. Izhar said. \u201cBut I am thinking about my children\u2019s future.\u201d<\/p>\n


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Follow Chris Buckley on Twitter<\/i> @ChuBailiang<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n